simple help needed with html media player & streaming

I simply want 2 stream on my website
i found a standard wmp in html-player inserts fine+shows on page buttons work etc

but i simply cannot play anything on it
in the player html(i looked at several) all have a section roughly sayin the same
"insert media file path or stream url here"

inbetween " & " -then delete the insert media file path or stream url here bit

infuriatingly NONE of these html players hav 1 iota of instruction
do you insert+remove "" do you put the full url?
if url is
wwwdotwatchingfruitbatsmatingdotcom/2725

do you insert the WHOLE url? a portion
given html can be the difference of 1 charactor between success+failure it beggars belief that there are no instructions
have posted the few i tried below-thanks in advancve if anyone can help me,cheers

1st one was this
<OBJECT id="VIDEO" width="320" height="240"
style="position:absolute; left:0;top:0;"
CLASSID="CLSID:6BF52A52-394A-11d3-B153-00C04F79FAA6"
type="application/x-oleobject">

<PARAM NAME="URL" VALUE="your file or url">
<PARAM NAME="SendPlayStateChangeEvents" VALUE="True">
<PARAM NAME="AutoStart" VALUE="True">
<PARAM name="uiMode" value="none">
<PARAM name="PlayCount" value="9999">
</OBJECT>

^^works+shows up buttons work but simply cannot input a url

2nd one --

<SELECT name=selecta size=1 id=musica onchange=document.all.playera.Filename=document.al l.musica.value;>
<OPTION selected>::::::::: Choose Your Media Sample Here :::::::::</OPTION>
<OPTION value="Stream URL or Full File Path Goes Here">My Video File </OPTION>
<OPTION value="Stream URL or Full File Path Goes Here">My Audio File</OPTION>
<OPTION value="Stream URL or Full File Path Goes Here">My Live Stream</OPTION>
</select>
<BR>
<OBJECT id=playera height=230 width=230 classid=clsid:22D6F312-B0F6-11D0-94AB-0080C74C7E95>
<PARAM NAME="AutoStart" VALUE="True">
<PARAM NAME="Balance" VALUE="False">
<PARAM NAME="DisplaySize" VALUE="True">
<PARAM NAME="Filename" VALUE="">
<PARAM NAME="Mute" VALUE="False">
<PARAM NAME="SelectionStart" VALUE="False">
<PARAM NAME="SelectionEnd" VALUE="False">
<PARAM NAME="ShowControls" VALUE="True">
<PARAM NAME="ShowAudioControls" VALUE="True">
<PARAM NAME="ShowDisplay" VALUE="False">
<PARAM NAME="ShowPositionControls" VALUE="False">
<PARAM NAME="Volume" VALUE="1">
<PARAM NAME="AudioStream" VALUE="False">
<PARAM NAME="AutoSize" VALUE="False">
<PARAM NAME="AnimationAtStart" VALUE="False">
<PARAM NAME="AllowScan" VALUE="False">
<PARAM NAME="AllowChangeDisplaySize" VALUE="False">
<PARAM NAME="AutoRewind" VALUE="True">
<PARAM NAME="BaseURL" VALUE="">
<PARAM NAME="BufferingTime" VALUE="5">
<PARAM NAME="CaptioningID" VALUE="">
<PARAM NAME="ClickToPlay" VALUE="True">
<PARAM NAME="CursorType" VALUE="0">
<PARAM NAME="CurrentPosition" VALUE="True">
<PARAM NAME="CurrentMarker" VALUE="True">
<PARAM NAME="DefaultFrame" VALUE="mainframe">
<PARAM NAME="DisplayBackColor" VALUE="True">
<PARAM NAME="DisplayForeColor" VALUE="16777215">
<PARAM NAME="DisplayMode" VALUE="1">
<PARAM NAME="Enabled" VALUE="-1">
<PARAM NAME="EnableContextMenu" VALUE="False">
<PARAM NAME="EnablePositionControls" VALUE="False">
<PARAM NAME="EnableFullScreenControls" VALUE="False">
<PARAM NAME="EnableTracker" VALUE="False">
<PARAM NAME="InvokeURLs" VALUE="False">
<PARAM NAME="Language" VALUE="False">
<PARAM NAME="PlayCount" VALUE="1">
<PARAM NAME="PreviewMode" VALUE="False">
<PARAM NAME="ShowStatusBar" VALUE="True">
<PARAM NAME="TransparentAtStart" VALUE="False">
</OBJECT>

^^this has a drop down menu for vid/audio or live stream-this has 4 lines of "inserts" again no instructions do you fill all the gaps,one?

This is the only thing stopping me id be grateful for any help
i have a reasonable lappy+desktop & i tested urls & streams from justin/atdhe+ustream.I have tried to insert the url manually b4 i insert 2 the website(via thier add gadget html thing)i also tried to add by editing the html box,neither works-im either a complete nana or have made a major error-im sure its somethin small ive overlooked makin me a total nana-ill accept that if someone can help me fix it! lol
Cheers

The major problem is that you try to insert Flash stream URLs into Windows Media player. Why do you expect this to work? You need a flash player. And you need to learn how to find stream URLs with say Grab++ and then use them with a flash player.


Why spending hours onto this when you can just outsource your project via a freelance marketplace? This will allows you to hire a professional from the U.S., Canada, India, Russia,.... And it won't be expensive at all.

If you want to learn this, you should start from the basics of HTML and Javascript.