Trouble with viewing my security cameras on the net (AirPort Extreme)

[epsound]

Hello all,

I have read a few of the applicable post without resolution. Hoping to get some help. Before I start just want to let you know I have recently returned from deployment. Just before I left I was set to get this going so my wife could see the house and the dog run while at work. I would also have used this to see home while in Asia. Technical service was worthless and we went back and forth with static IP and non static IP accounts, etc. We now have cable (what ever that means). I don't know much about the technical stuff here so I was and am still lost.

Once I deployed my wife logged three more hours on the phone with tech support alone and still no success.

I am back now an tried once again to contact tech support and after being on hold for twenty five minutes, I hung up!

I'm done with them. If I can't get help making this work soon it is going in the trash.

Set up:

generic DVR with 9 exterior and interior cameras all functioning.

access to the DVR network menu.

don't think I have a static IP

I have an Airport Extreme router (MAC) if that matters

All is good until I try to go passed just looking at the monitor on the home screen.

I could use some help here. Hope this is a good start. Please tell me what more you need to know.