This is what i would do .
find to any swf player , i use jw player wizard
http://www.longtailvideo.com/support...rd?example=204
1- Change Option #1 to flvplayer with an rtmp stream
2- under file properties go change file to the actual playpath file name .flv if it is an flv type
3- change External Communication streamer to your rtmp path
Hope this helps . Thanks