Problem connecting red5 server with a chat: NetConnection.Connection.Failed

Hello

I am completely new at this and know nothing about RTMP streaming.

I have had installed red5 on my centos dedicated server and the red5 demo url is present and also all working as I can view the demo movies it has.

What I can't seem to get right is connecting my chat/video software with the correct RTMP url as all I get is an "NetConnection.Connection.Failed" message or just Connection failed message.

Does anyone here know enough to be able to check on this for me and get it working please.

I am happy to pay for that service once it's done and working.

This help would be greatly appreciated.

Cheers